Thursday, June 14, 2012

Are You OK?

“It will be okay…” says the old mantra that plays over and over again when someone is experiencing heartbreaks. 
But you know it won’t. And that’s the truth, it won’t.
It's never okay to lose someone important to you. You can never really let someone go but all you can do, and in fact, what you should do, is move on. You, after all, are the master of your own life. Therefore, you are responsible for your own happiness. And the only way you can be happy again is if you recognize this fact. God, after all, gave you free will. In life, we can never have everything we want but I believe that we will always have everything we need.
And in response, genuine Love is always a decision to be made, a choice.
What you speak of as "love" here isn't really love, but rather, attachment. Attachment to the person, and of course, you can always choose to detach. It's hard yes, but like a bad habit, it is never impossible to break.


  1. When there's willpower, nothing's impossible!

  2. Yes, it's our life and we live it the way we choose. We can't be living it for others. Call me selfish but I think our own happiness must come first...

  3. yeah, it seems that although our fate is kind of "pre-programmed", it still leaves us some space to make our own decision and choices.. choose to be happy then~~ :)

  4. ya just do the best thing for our life, nice article

  5. Dear friend,
    Good message here. Sadly, there will always be more pain than happiness in this life. Thanks for sharing.

  6. We shall depend on wat we want...

  7. Very true, good to realize that nothing lasts forever.